Calm the Waves
When life feels heavy
You might be looking for therapy because life has been feeling heavy, and it feels like the right time to pause and reconnect with yourself and what you need. A space where your needs can matter, rather than always prioritising everyone else.
Perhaps you’ve noticed familiar survival patterns repeating themselves. You may even understand why they’re there, yet still feel unable to step out of them.
Or maybe everything simply feels too much right now, and maybe it has before.
You might have searched for help, then talked yourself out of it.
The next day, you tell yourself you’re fine. You’re strong. You don’t want to bother anyone. Maybe you’re being dramatic.
And then another wave hits, and you wonder how much longer you can keep going like this.
Finding your footing amid the waves
I’m Karen — welcome to Calm the Waves. Beginning this kind of work takes courage. Together, we create a space to pause, reflect, and begin navigating life’s waves in ways that feel steadier and right for you.
People often come to therapy because they’re experiencing:
- anxiety, exhaustion, or constant tension
- patterns in relationships that feel difficult to change
- difficulty connecting with their emotions
- a sense of being “stuck” in survival strategies
Your journey, your pace
This is your journey, one we walk together at a pace that feels right for you and your nervous system. Through curiosity and compassion, we explore the patterns and feelings that show up, and what they may have been trying to protect or communicate.
Over time, this awareness can help you find a steadier sense of calm. The waves may still be there, but you can meet them differently, in ways that feel more like yourself.
How I work
I’m an integrative, trauma‑informed therapist supporting adults, young people (11+), and families across Bournemouth, Poole, Christchurch, and the surrounding Dorset areas. I offer both long and short term therapy.
Working integratively means choosing approaches that make sense for your story, your nervous system, and the way you naturally process things, shaping the work around what you need at different points in your journey.
You might be here for:
- Individual therapy — space to reflect, understand yourself, and explore what matters to you
- Parent therapy — support for navigating family dynamics, emotional responses, and challenging behaviours
- Professional training — workshops for practitioners wanting to deepen their understanding of trauma, attachment, and relational work
There’s a quiet shift that happens when someone feels truly understood — when they reconnect with the part of themselves that’s been there all along.




